Things To Do In Your Thirties As A Single Woman

Last Week , we detailed the first part of things to do as a single woman in your thirties.We believe these points are necessary whether you are still waiting  for the one or you have decided to be single for a while. Whichever one understand that your life  has already started and start living.

That said, one key thing about being in that age range without being married is that your have to fight off pressure from your family and society. Good news, society are beginning to wind down  a little in terms of prejudice. If is you you have to convince one if being single will be the death of you. Here are things to do.

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Upgrade: You need to upgrade yourself. Maybe nothing expensive but I vest in things you can afford it. This upgrade can be making efforts to improve your self. In fact , as a single woman in her thirties, make mental, physical or financial changes that will reflect the changes you seek.

Go global: As much as society’s hold on women  are reducing, you need to align you without the mindset of the global world. In your thirties, you’re at the age of opportunities with several scholarships, fellowships and networking programmes targeting your age range. Take advantage of them before they disappear.

Indulge: Your life as a single woman in her thirties is already full of responsibilities and work. Therefore its time to start focusing on your own pleasure. Create your own pleasure by indulging in things that make you happy. Buy sexy underwear because you can. Wear them and enjoy the feel and look even without an audience.

Befriend: Don’t navigate life alone. Put your focus on building a network of friends like you. Connect with people who are focused, driven and yet knows how to have fun. Make experiences together and make life better for each of you

Dispel the pressure: Block your ears to the pressures and proddings from your family. As a single woman, many will come to you on advice about marriage. Even match makes you. don’t listen to that aunty. Don’t let your mother put you under pressure either. If marriage happens, enjoy it but before then, insist you must enjoy your singleness.

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Understand that age is ALWAYS on your side: if you’re female, ignore the biological clock. It isn’t a great reason to marry. If you’re deeply worried about this, freeze your eggs. It’s not so costly. But age is on your side because it brings along with it wisdom, ability and self-awareness amongst other things.

Don’t be with the wrong man: Normalize saying no to low-value men. If that man who continuously degrades proposes and you agree, do you think the degradation will truly stop? The answer is no. You have a whole life ahead of you, so if that propose is not what you want for genuine reasons, don’t say yes. Turn it down. Don’t lower the standard because age is not on your side.