Its post elections and I have an issue bothering me. My wedding is next year and my mother is insisting invite her friends who are Donald Trump Supporters. She wants to have people she knows at the wedding.
Heres the back story. I’m about to send save the dates in a few weeks for my wedding. But growing up in a very “purple” area politically, means that my parents who are very liberal politically have friends who are republicans and democrats.
Now mom is insisting that I invite some of her friends including some of Donald Trump supporters to my wedding. These people she wants to me to send invitations to voted for Donal trump whom I do not like. My mom said her friendships will end with these people if I don’t invite them.
Politically, I am a Democrat and I anticipated a Kamala Harris. I don’t feel it’s right nor do I want to invite Donald trump supporters to my wedding. Ordinariry I have no problem with it but most of my friends are queer. And they won’t be comfortable.
I told my mom this and I am removing them and she is livid. She is threatening not to support the wedding as she agreed. Am I in the wrong? Anyone else having this dilemma post-election? Should this a case for you if your wedding is next year.
I might say that my dad is not against my decision to not invite their Donal Trump supporters fgroup of friends. He says its my wedding and he agrees with my decision. But he is broke, his opinion does not matter. My mom calls the shots and he goes along.