Am I Paranoid To Accuse My Best friend Of Sleeping With My Boyfriend In Our Home

My best friend, Jane who lives out of town suddenly called that she was in my town. According to her, she came to visit a potential boyfriend for a weekend and because we hadn’t seen each other in months she decided to let me know.

Originally, she planned to stay with the dude but at the last minute, she called again and asked if he could crash at our place instead. Her reason was that she wasn’t really feeling the dude. My boyfriend and I stay together. I didn’t think it was a big deal since we have a guest room, and we have been friends for so long.

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So I asked my boyfriend if my best friend could stay even though he was out with friends when she called. However, something happened that made me question if I made the right decision. After he arrived home that evening, we all hung out for a while, catching up and then he went inside to freshen up.

He already had dinner so I whipped up something for me and my friend to eat. I instructed her that my boyfriend’s timezone for work starts around 12 that he usually likes to work naked in his studies and that she should not come out of her room once it’s midnight which she agreed.

I went in for the night cuddling with my man until it was time for his shift. He works as a remote network engineer and he is on the midnight shift. Around 2 am, I woke up to check in on him which I usually do but at different time intervals depending on the time I get up only to see my best friend in the study chatting with him still naked.

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She was wearing her skimpy nightie and looked totally ruffled and guilty. I was furious and told her to get out of my house that morning. She wasn’t happy about it and said I was being paranoid and I needed to chill that nothing happened. My boyfriend claimed the same but I still insisted she left and she did that morning.

After my best friend left, my man kept saying I did not trust him and that he was angry I would accuse him of such. He has been distant and I have not called my friend. Did I overreact? Now, I’m wondering if I should’ve handled it differently.