Four Reasons You Should Not Marry Your Partner Without Their Parents Approval
It has become the fashion of lovers to marry even when the parents of either or both party refuse to approve the marriage . Let’s ask? Dear reader, would you marry your partner if you didn’t get their parents approval?
If the answer is yes, then continue reading to find out why this isn’t ideal. While we understand the need to follow your head after all it is you who will live with your partner and not them. Still, these are your parents and they care about you.
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So it’s clear that advising you is not because they want you to be unhappy. Getting your partner’s parents approval before marrying your spouse will not only guarantee a successful marriage but will help save 99 percent of your future problems.
Now, if you are ready to marry a person and the parents of the person make it clear to you that you aren’t fit for their child, try your best to talk it out with them as regards to their reasons for not wanting you to marry their child. If after the discussion, they still maintain their stand that you aren’t going to be welcomed in their family.
Then its time to pull respect yourself and pull a plug on that relationship because it can never end well for you. We believe getting your spouse’s parents approval before proceeding with the marriage is right thing to do. Don’t force yourself into a family that made it clear to you from day one that you weren’t welcomed into their home. That said, here are some reasons you should not marry where you are not welcome.
It will save you money: Forcing yourself into such a family marks the genesis of your problem for life. if you are a man, a wedding that is supposed to cost you less than 500k might cause you over 5million naira with stress. The girl’s family will make sure everything is inflated for you. For example, if the list says 1 goat, they will replace it with a cow etc.
You will blamed for everything: In cases where you don’t get your spousses parents approval and anything happens to their child in the course of the marriage, you will regret your life. Perhaps the lady dies from child birth, the guy could die from an accident, anything could happen and the person is gone the next minute. Their family will even accuse you of killing their child
Your marriage may not prosper: You need the blessings of your inlaw for your marriage to prosper whether you like it or not. The truth is that you will have problem with your partner that will be needing the intervention of family people. You will definitely break down. Or do you think it’s love all through the union?
Your children will suffer for it: Your children will grow up to inherit unnecessary battles they know nothing about from inlaws. I believe you don’t want such for your kids. Once family, especially your partner’s parents says we don’t want you for our child, flee for your life. There are many lovers out there who will even love you better.
Finally, getting married without your partner’s parents approval is tantamount to starting your union with family battle. This should never be an option. Time have proven that the outcomes are usually same. Trouble and unnecessary problems.
