Dear Tee, please publish my story so other people can beware. My mother-in-law did something last week that I find puzzling and my wife sees nothing wrong with it. She is not even concerned with the repercussions of what could happen to our child.

My wife gave birth to our first last four months and her mother came for the omugwo. She stayed over a month during which I ensured she left with so many foodstuff and gift items as was customary. I even gave her some cash as well for the house.

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However my mother-in-law came last month and she has an unusual request. My wife told me that her mother wants our child’s urine, she said her mother said someone told her to bring an innocent baby’s urine and all her financial preblems will be sorted. We spoke about it and I told her to tell her mother no.

Only for the mother to arrive at our house this week and something told me to stay hyper-aware of whats going on. Like my intuition told me I decided to check her bag as she was about to leave the house and I saw a small bottle with an urge inside, I took the bottle out of the bag.

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It was my son’s urine. I mashed out at my mother-in-law in front of my wife. Instead of her backing me up, she told me not to disrespect her mother. To her, there’s nothing wrong with it and I should relax that she will talk to her mom. Am I wrong for being angry? I am a Christian and I don’t believe in such.

I am not finding this funny at all. Did my wife know about it? She has not been talking to me since then. I don’t thinki did anything wrong, It’s the job of a parent to protect his child. Is this normal because I no longer want to so my child my mother-in-law see my son again for life? I don’t know what she may do next.

Last Week , we detailed the first part of things to do as a single woman in your thirties.We believe these points are necessary whether you are still waiting  for the one or you have decided to be single for a while. Whichever one understand that your life  has already started and start living.

That said, one key thing about being in that age range without being married is that your have to fight off pressure from your family and society. Good news, society are beginning to wind down  a little in terms of prejudice. If is you you have to convince one if being single will be the death of you. Here are things to do.

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Upgrade: You need to upgrade yourself. Maybe nothing expensive but I vest in things you can afford it. This upgrade can be making efforts to improve your self. In fact , as a single woman in her thirties, make mental, physical or financial changes that will reflect the changes you seek.

Go global: As much as society’s hold on women  are reducing, you need to align you without the mindset of the global world. In your thirties, you’re at the age of opportunities with several scholarships, fellowships and networking programmes targeting your age range. Take advantage of them before they disappear.

Indulge: Your life as a single woman in her thirties is already full of responsibilities and work. Therefore its time to start focusing on your own pleasure. Create your own pleasure by indulging in things that make you happy. Buy sexy underwear because you can. Wear them and enjoy the feel and look even without an audience.

Befriend: Don’t navigate life alone. Put your focus on building a network of friends like you. Connect with people who are focused, driven and yet knows how to have fun. Make experiences together and make life better for each of you

Dispel the pressure: Block your ears to the pressures and proddings from your family. As a single woman, many will come to you on advice about marriage. Even match makes you. don’t listen to that aunty. Don’t let your mother put you under pressure either. If marriage happens, enjoy it but before then, insist you must enjoy your singleness.

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Understand that age is ALWAYS on your side: if you’re female, ignore the biological clock. It isn’t a great reason to marry. If you’re deeply worried about this, freeze your eggs. It’s not so costly. But age is on your side because it brings along with it wisdom, ability and self-awareness amongst other things.

Don’t be with the wrong man: Normalize saying no to low-value men. If that man who continuously degrades proposes and you agree, do you think the degradation will truly stop? The answer is no. You have a whole life ahead of you, so if that propose is not what you want for genuine reasons, don’t say yes. Turn it down. Don’t lower the standard because age is not on your side.

It is quite clear that Kourtney Kardashian and Travis Barker are completely besotted with each other as they are always kissing and touching each other. Even the presence of their kids was not enough to deter them.

Recall that her last child Reign Disick whom she shares with Scott Disick commented in an episode of The Kardashians season 5 that its disgusting and that they should limit it. Apparently, it did not work as the couple’s latest Halloween Decor shows.

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A photo dump shared on Wednesday shows one Halloween Decor image of Kourtney Kardashian and Travis Barker having sex. Fans are not taking it lightly with as they stated that it is not spooky but disgusting considering that they have kids at home.

The post which was captioned,”Hello October,” saw fans reacting furiously under the comments section. One fan wrote, “Shes such a weird do ever since she got with Barker. Dark soul … More conservative when she was with Scott!” Another criticised her outfit writing, “What are you wearing girl? U use to dress so nicely. “Elegant. Now, not so much. This is not you.”

The next comment bordered on the Kourtney Kardashian and Travis Barker skeleton Halloween decor. It read, “The skeletons seriously? Any respect for your kids?” Another comment termed the skeletons tacky. The skeletons are a little tacky.” “That Skeleton position? Really?” another wrote.

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Yet another critique of the decor wrote, “As a mother of four kids, I find it disgusting you would do that to those inflatables.” Apart from the disgusting decor, the photo dump shows the Poosh founder all decked out in an oversized green jacket with nothing underneath. Her son Rocky Thirteen was also in the pram as she held it.

Other images show several Halloween decorations of big orange pumpkins, a basket of fruits and vegetables and outdoor activities of the celebrity family.

 

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The Paris Fashion Week 2024  shows are still ongoing and celebrities are showing off their incredible style as they sit front rows of different fashion brands. However, rapper and soon-to-be-divorced Cardi B is pulling the stops in all her outfits at the show.

It seems as if while fashion brands are showing off their new designs, the mother of three is having her own Paris show. Perhaps those who are opportunities to remind her estranged husband, Offset what he stands to lose should they finalize their divorce.

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However one can’t deny that the Paris fashion week  2024 did not bring out Cardi B style courtesy of her celebrity stylist. The stylist dresses her in several high-end fashion looks for Viviene Westwood show, Messika, Rick Owens, muffler etc. Keep scrolling to see the best of the star for the fashion shows. 

Cardi B sizzles in Black for Mugler fashion show

Cardi B’s Best Outfit For Paris Fashion Week 2024

Cardi B at the Rabbane Paris Fashion Week 2024 show

Cardi B’s Best Outfit For Paris Fashion Week 2024

The rapper at the Rick Owens fashion show

Cardi B’s Best Outfit For Paris Fashion Week 2024

The rapper rocks a green floor length jacket for the Balmain Show

Its a hot short colourful dress for the Vivienne Westwood Paris fashion week show 2024

Cardi B’s Best Outfit For Paris Fashion Week 2024

Cardi B’s Best Outfit For Paris Fashion Week 2024

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The rapper rocks a black sleeveless ruched dress for the messiah show.

Cardi B’s Best Outfit For Paris Fashion Week 2024

 

Although Kanye West and Bianca Censori are currently in Tokyo together, the couple have not been seen together for more than two weeks. While this may not be unusual for several celebrity couples, it is for the rapper and his pet.

Yes pet, that’s how several social media users view the architect. Perhaps it has something to do with how she always follows her husband everywhere. Or the fact that the father of four is controlling her and her fashion style.

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Social media users are now speculating that Kanye West and Bianca Censori are having marital issues. Since September 20 after a shopping trip, he has been going for his engagements alone. For example, she was not at the wrestling match the rapper attended earlier this week.

She was also not seen in the viral video making round internet of Kanye signing autographs at Good Wood Terrace restaurant and at the Hong Kong airport. A source told us that,” Bianca has gotten continuously disenchanted with life. He is still hung up on his ex and no matter what she does, she can’t measure up.”

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“ This has continuously been a source of dissension between them. She has done all he asked. Including dressing however, he wanted but still, he couldn’t seem to completely shake off this weird enchantment he has with Kim.”

Recall that Kanye West and Bianca Censori tied the knit in a non-legal binding ceremony one month after he finalized his divorce from Kim Kardashian. It is not clear if the marriage is legal or not but the couple are enjoying their marriage to the best.

Emily Ratajkowski is booked and busy for Paris fashion week as her Instagram page shows that she attended Loewe’s fashion show with her son, Sylvester Bear Mclard. But what else does her Instagram page page show?

The model usually shares thirst straps on her Instagram page but its been a while since she treated fans which is a surprise.  But on Thursday, her story shows her topless teasing fans about her gorgeous body as she poses inside her closet.

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In the photo, Emily Ratajkowski went topless showing off her luscious skin and covering her boobs with her hand and phone. Underneath, she wore a pair of high-waisted jeans. Surrounding her are white-painted counters for her clothes, bags and shoes.

Emily Ratajkowski Teases Fans With Topless Photo On Instagram Story: See Image

The photo further showed that her face was bereft of makeup and hair flowing down her head and stilopoing on her shoulders suggesting dhe cut her hair. Her bangs were also gone implying she may layered them to suit the summer feel.

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Emily Ratajkowski captioned the Instagram story,” ok you ate @melzy917.”  Perhaps she is referring to the brand that designed the high-rise trousers. As stated above, the model is used for sharing sultry photos on her page.

A quick glance would clarify that the model loves her body and enjoys showing it off either completely nude or in a barely there bikini. And she has her swimwear brand Inamorata to thank for the sexy little images.

In January 2022, Halle Bailey and DDG started dating and the couple went public with their romance in August 2022. Then, the little mermaid star declared having strong feelings for the rapper. To her, she was completely in love which seems to have now fizzled out.

After they went public with their romance, it was speculated the actress and singer was pregnant which she continued to deny until news filtered in that she hd given birth to their son, Halo, in January 2024.  And she blasted fans who implied that she hid her pregnancy.

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9 months after giving birth to Halo, Halle Bailey and DDG are done with the fairly tale romance. According to the split message shared to his Instagram message on Thursday, he noted that the decision to break up was for them to forge their own paths as the relationship was no longer working for both of them.

Per the Instagram story, “After much reflection and heartfelt conversations, Halle and I have decided to go our separate ways.” “This decision was not easy, but we believe it’s the best path forward for us both. I cherish the time we’ve spent together and the love we’ve shared.”

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“Despite the changes in our relationship, our love for each other remains deep and true. We are still best friends and adore each other,” he continued. “As we focus on our individual journeys and our roles as co-parents, we cherish the bond we’ve built and the beautiful moments we’ve shared.”

Like all celebrity break up messages, Halle Bailey and DDG also includes that fans support their decision as they start the next chapter of their life. Ending with,”Thank you for love and encouragement.”

Is it not weird how our society makes it look like a single woman in her thirties is an expired good with no value? While this view is no longer much of a mainstream idea, we can’t deny that in some parts of the country and somehow underneath everything, women still fear clocking 30 because of it.

Understand one thing, meeting and marrying the love of your life is one of the best things that could happen to anyone. But what if you are not lucky? Would you go for mediocre just to answer Missus? Or would you hold your head strong and continue on your purpose while you wait?

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This post is for the latter. A strong empowered single woman who’d rather keep her standards than accept a low-value man. These fourteen points are things to focus on while you wait and if you feel that the biological clock is still ticking, we included some points on things that could help as well. That said, here are things to focus on as a single-thirties woman.

Make money: Thirties are the optimal age for productivity and so you should take advantage of it. Instead of wallowing in despair, it is the time to create the future that you desire and for your kids should you want to have them outside marriage. Having money will solve most of the problems you will face. So get that promotion that can increase your salary, build a business and invest your money

Travel: You can only be miserable if you are at home bemoaning your fate. Being a single woman in your thirties is an opportunity to see the world and explore. The world is so vast and there are so many opportunities out there that will widen your perspective, help me meet new people, learn different cultures etc. That itself can help you find the one or help decide if you don’t want one.

Take care of your body: Imagine if you are in your thirties and you are looking like a 20-year-old. That’s what caring for your body does. Exercise, eat healthily, avoid alcohol, and avoid situations that stress you.  These activities help you recognize yourself as that fine babe you have always been and help remain in love with yourself.

Develop yourself professionally:  You need money and lots of it to increase your earning power, it will be better to learn new skills. You can focus on signing up for a course or getting an extra degree or certification. And the good news to all of this is that there’s no one stopping you. You own your time and life. So you can be more.

Treat Yourself: You work too much for your money as a single woman not to enjoy it. If you can pay for your life, remember to splurge on yourself and buy yourself nice stuff. Buy that house, that nice car, those form-fitting clothes, accessories and jewellery. A high-value man will never be intimidated.

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Hobby: There are no kids yet taking your time and no husband yet. So what do you do with all your free time especially when you close from work? That’s what a hobby does. Find something you enjoy doing and do it wholly. You’ve always wanted to dance? Learn it. You like to paint? Get art supplies. You like music, immerse yourself in it.

Live: Your life started the day you were born. You only become more aware of it as you get older. Don’t keep waiting as if life happens at a different time. You are living already. Get on with it, have fun, make friends. Enjoy your life, there’s no other magic waiting to happen. You are the magic already.

A week ago my uncle called me to come to the village because he had something he needs to say. I asked him why he couldn’t tell me on the phone and he noted that the issue is delicate. I told my wife I would be travelling to the village because my curiosity was peeked.

I did suspect it had something to do with our childlessness because they have been on my neck to marry another wife once our marriage clocked 10 years.  That’s the reason I last visited two years ago. But then I already agreed to go and since our hometown is in the east I left earlier with my driver.

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My wife looked fearful as I was leaving. It was as if she suddenly got a bad feeling that they would get through to me this time. She has always know about their clamour for a new wife. On getting to the village, she kept calling untill I had to turn off my phone.

In the night, my uncle told me I have a two-and-a-half-year-old son somewhere. It’s wild because I don’t even know how to react. It’s a bittersweet moment. I’m happy I have a child, but I’m more disappointed in myself for ruining and betraying my wife’s trust by cheating on her. I hope she forgives me.

Long story short, I had a quickie in the car with my first love when I met her in the village. We hadn’t seen each other for the past 15 years after attending her wedding the same year. You know women marry very early. On my last visit, two years ago, I started talking to her and it ended with a quickie in my car after she told me she is now divorced.

And now she has a child for me. She only didn’t tell me because we agreed to stay off no contact. But I guess she was overwhelmed by guilt hence her reaching out to my uncle and now this, and I don’t even know how to break the news to my wife. I really love her, but now, I don’t know if she will stay with me again after this.

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The child looks exactly like me, but I still want a DNA test to be sure. She does not want anything else except wanting me to know. I want to do the right thing by supporting and taking care of the baby, but i don’t want to lose my wife. I feel embarrassed and disappointed and somewhat relieved that I am not the reason for our childlessness.

I hope she forgives me. What do you all think I should do? Because I don’t want her to leave me. I love her regardless.

It seems like the fairy tale bubbles are finally bursting. Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce are battling their first break-up rumours following a fairy tale romance which started last year. This is the first time the couple will be hinting break up rumours.

Now what do you think started these rumours? The Eras tour performer is iconic in her complete support for her player boyfriend and has shown up at his games every time she is not performing in her Eras tour world tour but the last two games have been quite different.

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An act that saw fans alleging that Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce relationship may be packing up. The popstar skipped Travis’s last two games but different media outlets are reporting that their relationship is far from over.

Instead, the singer is preparing for her tour which starts kicks up again on October 18th in Miami. The Era’s tour is proving to be the longest tour by an artist. The Eras Tour is her sixth concert tour which started on March 17, 2023, in Glendale, Arizona and was initially set to end on December 8, 2024, in Vancouver.

However, the singer kept adding your dates and a year plus later is still firing on. Amid the ongoing tour and breakup rumours, several insider have spoken to  Us Weekly on  Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce relationship and future plans. Per the outlet, the couple are still on board with being together.

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“They’re spending as much time together as possible while balancing their careers and individual responsibilities—his game and her music empire, along with personal projects.”They are also ignoring online chatter about their relationship status.”“They’re choosing not to dwell on the noise, focusing instead on staying true to themselves and being happy.”

Both are currently focusing on their careers but will decide firmly what they want to do next year. Perhaps they’d get engaged and get married.