Will They Divorce? My Dad Is Cheating On My Mum With 5 Women

Dear Tee, I recently found out my dad is cheating on my mom when I accidentally found out several texts between my dad and the women on my mom’s phone. I think she hacked his phone but I don’t if he knows that she knows what he has been up to.

Don’t get me wrong, I absolutely adore my father, he is my hero and my inspiration. My friends keeping telling people that i have one of the best fathers in the world and that he is a nice person. But finding out what he has been doing has been horrid. I hate him and i hate him so much i wish he is dead and i feel guilty for thinking that way.

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But finding out that my dad has been cheating on my mum is pretty horrible and it has changed my outlook on love. My mom and dad are both doctors and my dad is having affairs with the nurses in his workplace and so far he has 5 women that i know of he is cheating with.  The chats are disgusting and i feel like throwing up. it does’nt even sound like the dad that i know.

But I guess that’s what infidelity does to people. I also think that my dad cheating on my mum has resulted in a love child. Because i also found videos of a 3 year old boy who is the son of a woman he has an affair with. The boy looks sooo much like my father than the man that woman is married to.

Some of the women are married and some have kids. One if his women looks very young that you can see she is in her late 20s. When my mum first found out about his infidelities, she had confronted him about it but he promised that he would stop. But the chats on my mum’s phone are recent and I don’t think he knows that she has them.

If they divorce, my siblings and I will be forced to choose between them. And I want to protect them from the fact that our dad is a loser. On the other hand I feel like my dad cheating on my mum will be out in the open soon and until then I have to keep pretending that I hadn’t seen those texts.

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I think hiding my feelings to keep my family together is the best option but everyday i feel like I am torturing myself because i have to smile and act like everything is normal with my dad and feeling sorry for my mom because if I was her I would have kicked that man out of my house already.

I  dont think I’m traumatized and there are people my age who have it worse and i feel like im overreacting. I want to tell my mum that I know and ask her what she will do. But on the other hand, I feel like its not my place. Should i confront my dad abt it?  I dont want that man to ruin my life but I don’t know what to do and I really need some advise.